I don't know how others think about it, but for me are those "reasons" just excuses for laziness and personal weaknesses. It's quite simple, all or nothing! This is a big problem in modern times, and especially for the White Race, just sit around and complain, but do nothing about it. I've seen many people come and go over the years, my experiences are the same. Again and again any excuses, mother has forbidden me, i don't want trouble...etc. Are you kidding me?! Then draws you to a dress and crying in the corner. Life is not a walk in the park, so grow up. Yes, i'm not long in the church yet, i've maybe not the right to say that, you also can hate me for this, but for me they are...traitors. I'm sick of these "people". Nothing left to say...